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  • Archive for June, 2009

    The Value of Money…through a kid’s eye

    Sunday, June 28th, 2009

    As I was paying the bills yesterday, I noticed that my cable bill was seriously out of whack. At first, I thought maybe I had forgot to pay last month, but upon further inspection, realized my 7 year-old son had charged nearly $100 of pay-per-view wrestling. When I called him out on it, he was immediately embarrassed and volunteered to pay for it out of his personal money. He probably knew I would ask him anyway, but it was nice to see him fess up and take responsibility. He grabbed a $100 bill that he found in a parking lot after a football game and brought it to my office. I could see the tears welling up, so gave him a hug and asked “Did you think I wouldn’t find out?” As the tears now started to roll, he admitted that was the case.

    In the end, the experience taught us both a couple of lessons. He learned the true cost of pay-per-view and I am sure he won’t be ordering any more WWE specials again anytime soon. His WWE marathon had cost him five months worth of allowance. He also realized that it doesn’t pay to be deceitful. Dad knows more than he thought.

    As for me, I was reminded that i have to be diligent in my efforts to keep up with my kids’ viewing contnent. But, most importantly, I realized that Max will tell the truth when confronted, which for now gives me a great opportunity to teach lessons.

    Digital Interruption- Limiting Television and Video Game Time Through Structure

    Friday, June 26th, 2009

    So here it goes…my first blog post EVER! Nevertheless, I recognize that I need to enter the new millenium. So, I’ll start with my blog.

    The world is changing, we all know that. It is evermore difficult to parent when so many distractions surround us and our kids. There was a recent study by USC’sĀ Annenberg School that describes how these changes are impacting family interaction. If nothing else, it is enlightening; but for me, it is awfully scary. Kids need us to help them learn good habits that will enable them for the future. It’s very hard to overcome the power that digital media holds on this next generation, but I for one will try.

    We’ve committed to limit video game and television usage in our home and our Family Constitution helps us do it. Our kids understand our expectations and the reasons for our concern (even though they don’t agree). The best way to earn time in front of the television is to go outside and work up a sweat, participate in sports, and make good use of the SoCal weather that they are so lucky to have.

    If you have any other ways to combat Screen Time laziness…please let me know.

     
     
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